Teach & Speechby Julia Taylor, Speech Pathologist

How to Teach Your Baby First Words (and Which Words to Pick)

By Julia Taylor, B.App.Sc. (Sp.Path.), M.Hlth.Sc., CPSP 7 min read

The best first words aren't the impressive ones — they're the useful ones. Words your baby can use to make things happen: more, up, go, no, all gone. Official guidance lists examples like 'hi', 'dog', 'mama' and 'dada' as typical early words, while emphasizing that children vary enormously in timing (National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders [NIDCD], 2022). Here's how to choose your child's starter set and teach it without a single flashcard.

What makes a great first word

Three ingredients: it's meaningful to your child, it repeats naturally through the day, and it does something. 'More' gets more snack. 'Up' gets picked up. 'Go' launches the game. Words that pay off get practiced; words that don't, don't. Names of favorite people, pets, and foods qualify for the same reason — they're connected to what your child already cares about (NIDCD, 2022).

Notice what's not on the list: colors, numbers, letters, shapes. Those are lovely later; they just don't help a one-year-old get milk or launch a ball. Function first.

A starter set that earns its keep

A practical first-words menu — pick the handful that fit your child’s day:

  • Power words: more, up, go, no, mine, help — words that make things happen.
  • People and pets: mama, dada, names of siblings and the dog.
  • Routine words: bye-bye, night-night, hi, uh-oh, all gone, all done.
  • Favorite things: ball, car, milk, banana, teddy — whatever your child adores.
  • Fun sounds that count as words: woof, moo, beep-beep, wheee, boom.

How to actually teach them

The method is responsive, not drilling. When your child shows interest — a look, a point, a grunt — you supply the word, short and clear, right at that moment. When they attempt it, you acknowledge and add a little: child says 'truck', you say 'Yes! Big blue truck' (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC], 2026a). Respond to pointing with the word rather than demanding they say it first — the point is communication, and it deserves an answer (CDC, 2026a).

Then stack the repetitions inside routines. 'Up' at every pick-up, 'more' at every snack, 'all gone' every time the bath drains. Pause before the key moment — 'ready, set…' — and let the gap pull the word out of them (CDC, 2026c). No performance pressure, no 'say it properly': approximations like 'muh' for more get celebrated and answered, because at this stage, communication beats pronunciation every time.

Tools that make it easier

This teach-one-word-well approach is exactly how this site is built. Each word kit takes one power word — the MORE Kit, the GO Kit, the ALL-GONE Kit — and pairs it with three toys and simple play scripts. The Talking Journey puts the kits in a sensible order, starting right here at first words. And each Woodland Friends book in the shop gives one of these words a story of its own, so your child hears their target word a dozen warm, repeated times per bedtime. Same principle everywhere: one useful word, many happy repetitions.

The takeaway

Pick a small set of useful, motivating words — more, up, go, ball, bye-bye — and deliver them at the moment your child's attention is already there. Answer every point with a word, celebrate every attempt, repeat inside routines. Useful beats impressive, every time.

Sources & further reading

  • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2026a). Milestones by 1 year. https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/milestones-1yr.html
  • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2026b). Milestones by 18 months. https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/milestones-18mo.html
  • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2026c). Milestones by 2 years. https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/milestones-2yr.html
  • National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders. (2022). Speech and language developmental milestones. https://www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/speech-and-language

A friendly note (and the fine print)

This article is general educational information only. It is not speech therapy, therapeutic advice, an assessment, a diagnosis, or a substitute for individualized professional care, and reading it does not create a therapist–client relationship. Every child is different — if you have any concerns about your child’s speech, language, hearing or development, please consult your own certified speech-language pathologist, pediatrician or family health professional, who can advise you about your individual child. See when to talk to a professional for how to find one.

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